On our last date he said he would text me about meeting up again when I left. We were just texting generally yesterday and I told him I can meet up with him on his day off if he's free but he said he had plans already for that day. He then said he might see me on another day. I sent him a text saying 'let me know' last night but he hasn't texted me since.
Its also been a couple of days since our last date. He usually brings up meeting up quite early on. He asked me for a second date at the end of our first. He asked me for a third date as soon as I was back from work abroad.
I dont want to bring it up again because I already have and I've left the ball in his court. Should I wait or is he unsure about seeing me again?
Most Helpful Guy
He's fence sitting. He's also a guy. He could have other obligations. ? Kids? Family? Parents? Needy brothers or sisters?
But you only went on 3 dates?
Did you hook up? You say he's touchy feely.. He's obviously in tune with his sensitive side. Are you exclusive? Have you previously talked about dating others? What kind of connection do you have? I don't have all nessicary information needed.
Tell him you are looking for a man to call your own. If that's to forward. Mention your planning to go on a singles weekend.
In life i have found that addressing something honestly and head on is the best way to get answers . Ask for a clear yes or no..
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Most Helpful Girl
Girl, I’ve been in the SAME exact situation! I was reading the comments and I saw you haven’t hooked up or anything so that’s good. But the reason a guy stopped asking me out after the third date was because I didn’t hook up with him. Do you think that’s a possibility? I say totally go out with that other guy though, you’re single! If this guy isn’t gonna ask you out then whatcha waiting for! Give the other guy a chance. Maybe even post a picture w him (; nothing will make that other guy chase you harder than if he sees you out with other guys! or say you’re going out to a club with some friends, like that other guy mentioned, that always works too!
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