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No l don’t think you are stupid for trying to believe in an ideal relationship women do it endlessly. I do think great matches exist it’s just hard to find a good match for you most just end up picking the closest option. But soulmate would imply that the person is the perfect lock to your key which is unlikely the case for most people. As for the girl you belived was the one most likely was not. Getting knocked up that early by a clown does not really signal good judgment. That should of been your wake up call that it was just puppy love and nothing else and she was definitely not a soulmate.