Please help me
Most Helpful Girl
Whoever called you that obviously has some issues to work on.
I like when a guy shows he cares and does this to help out. As long as he's not doing EVERYTHING. Example; my ex would do so much that i felt incapable of doing anything for myself. It came to a point that my anxiety was getting worse and I then started relying on him to do things for me. This became unhealthy. And i started resenting him even though he was just trying to be nice
Most Helpful Guy
Anything that is her responsibility and anything that should be 50:50, let her do it herself. Dont help her unless she asks for it. If she looks at you expecting to do something for her, ask her what she wants and only do it if you believe she will reward you for it. Dont aim to please, it gives her the message that your controlling and sexist.