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some people have fairy tale romances but that is not how it works for everybody. I know woman who prayed over their husbands, got rejected by the guy they thought they were supposed to marry and then waited years before the guy they rejected became interested in them. They also argued and had money problems for years during their marriage. It wasn't until about 20 - 30 years of marriage, that their relationship became perfect and incredible and flawless and blissful.
A pastor at my church told us when he started dating his wife 22 years ago and during their initial dating phase, they were fighting a lot and went to a pastor for help and the pastor told them to break up cause the though their relationship was bad. They are now happily married, rich, loved, both very good looking still and have 2 children who adore them and are both kind and beautiful and smart.