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To be honest other than the age and height thing everything she said was reasonable and I agree with (with the reverse for going out, I’d rather not have a club rat). I don’t get the height but especially age thing, I get not being too old or too young but refusing to date someone even a month younger is so odd to me, my mum is 3 years older than my dad so I always saw it as normal. With the height thing I understand being taller but a 5’11 limit is a little restrictive. I’m 5’4 as long as they’re 5’4 or taller I don’t care, and 97.5% are taller than 5’4 so it’s not a big deal.4
I thought this was a pretty cool experiment. I guess if you go ahead and get out of the way the things that matter to you, then it would be easy to narrow it down. I think she was really picky though. I have little brothers, but I have dated someone younger than me, and I didn't see them as a brother just because of their age. That's a bit ridiculous. Also being very picky about height, I don't really wear heels so I guess I just don't think about it. But overall, I think as long as you can find someone with the same views and morals as yourself, a little bit of differences in each other can be exciting because you can explore outside of what you are used to. And it doesn't have to be a drastic difference for that to happen, it could just be having different hobbies or tastes in food.4
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But I have to say some of the criteria they exclude people on is just... stupid
Excluding people because they don't work in or are planning to work In a creative field? Seriously?
Excluding people because they are not older than you? Seriously?
I would like to have seen this being done with people with less silly standards
I think the girl here was worse with her standards than the guy but both of them... yikes
Wonder if they repeated this a thousand times if how the average results would turn out6
That girl is confusing "values" with simple desires. They're not the same. I think she's just young though and her values are probably going to mature a little more as she does when she gets older.
She doesn't want to have her first kid though until at least 33? That's very risky in terms of child health issues. Like if you're saying to wait until your mid 30s to have your first child that's basically the same as saying you don't want to have kids ever. It's safe to have a second or third kid into your 30s and even 40s but it's very dangerous to give birth to your very first child that late in a woman's reproductive stage.0