It's some fucked up psychological bullshit in my head and im literally asking how to better the image i have of myself in order to feel secure and SIMPLY to believe I'm "enough".
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this isn't about him this about you and your insecurities. Why do you not value yourself enough to believe he wouldn't cheat? or also why do you think you won't be able to survive being cheated on? I don't need your answers to these questions but I believe you do.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
You gotta work this out with him. Sit down and talk about it.
Keep in mind, the fact that he already gave you his password is a show that he wants you to know that you can trust him. He knows you can unlock his phone so he won't do anything wrong. You can also ask him to help you get over it together, and you need to tell him how you feel. Chances are, he will understand and try to make you feel better about yourself, and offer support. Also, out of everyone, he chose you, for who you are. Never forget that.
I also did the same with my ex-gf (it was mutual actually), wr made our phone passwords the same, and i regularly added her into conversations i was having with other female friends, to keep myself in check and to let her know she could trust me. And it worked! Too bad my parents forced me to break up with her!2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Ask if he wants to change your password. I dont have acces but he leaves his fb open a lot and I want to check (but I dont). So I get the struggle. Its easier if you dont have acces at all :)1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE