I think my opinion in looks is a bit different then normal shallow girls I tend to like guys that are bigger
Bigger in what way? like a gentle giant?
Like I go for non model type I like to cuddle with fluffy stuffing not building material my muscles are good to a point but I've never really been into the model type I'm a thick girl myself so I tend to go for thicker bigger guys taller wider whatever I mean I don't want no like Arnold Schwarzenegger bodybuilder type
And what would my league be? How does one tell?
I have no way of knowing. I had a girl tell me the same thing you wrote in your question. (She was about a 5/10)I handed her a magazine, and told her to pick out the guys she'd be interested in. She chose about 3, and they all looked like male models. Very soon you will be an Xper2, then you can post pics. Post a pic of someone who looks very similar to you, and then ask to be rated.
Haha nice idea
Keep answering questions, and you'll hit that level by tomorrow. You can click on your icon, and see how far you have to go.
To be honest I'll probably end up deleting this app is so far all I've gotten was crap for being a single mom and no one even knows my story
That must have been on a different thread. If you decide to stay, I would never ask another question. It's a complete waste of time. Most people can barely read/understand the title, let alone the additional details. I gave up asking questions awhile back, and the site is now way more entertaining. If you do decide to post a pic of you or a likeness, don't say it's you. Say it's a friend that is curious, but too shy to post. If people know it's about you, they'll give low ratings, just to be cruel. Welcome to GAG. lol
Thank You it's sad that the world is that way
The world isn't, GAG is. This place is it's own planet. I saw a question from a guy, and he mentioned he would never be with a slut. I asked him how many partners it would take, to reach slut status. He said, one. lolSo then I asked him, if HE had sex with a virgin, would he have just created a slut? 94c0gqkhy4-flywheel.netdna-ssl.com/.../...hts.jpegLOL
Hahaha that's great
You know he doesn't represent the real world.
Yeah but around here in the Midwest people aren't as nice as they're portrayed on TV
Have you tried dating apps and sites?
Yep on Plenty of Fish and try to Okay Cupid and Zoosk I have tried eHarmony but unfortunately with me I don't feel like I should have to pay to find love I think it should just happen but I think that might be one of my big problems cuz I'm not willing to pay 60 bucks a month to meet guys who want to do the horizontal bop
Hell no, never pay. They're usually all the same guys. I talked to a girl who put up a quick profile on Tinder, and she said she likes it better the POF and the bunch. She said that the POF crowd, just want to chat for all eternity. And the Tinder guys actually want to meet.
Everyone I talk to you that's on tender and I have always told me that tender they just want to f***
I think 90% do. I think it's the same way with the traditional dating sites. What she likes about Tinder, is that it's easier. You don't have to write a novel on your profile, and you get to meet sooner. Also, have you tried meetup?https://www.meetup.com/
No I haven't I will check that out thank you
It only works if you're near a big city. If you are, then you just join groups that interest you. (all free)The groups will post upcoming events, and you just let them know if you'll be attending. It's mostly singles, but not always. It's an easy way to get out and meet people.
How near I am about an hour away from indianapolis
The group events will probably mostly be in the city. But smaller cities can have events also. There's a zillion types of groups. Don't waste your time with a group with 10 members. Join groups with hundreds of members. The events themselves, could range from wine tasting, dinners, dancing, nature walks, art exhibits. You will be able to see who's going to each event, so if no guys are going, then don't waste your time. Also, once you've joined a group or groups, you can PM anyone in the same group. You can ask questions and get to know people that way, without even attending an event.
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I feel ya there my ideal date is standing around a fire hanging out with good friends and maybe a drink or two drinks her optional to be honest I could go without him as long as I got me a sweet tea I'm good but everybody that I've met so far just once to come over f*** drink or get high and if out well I mean I am not a virgin so that's okay I guess but I'm not all about doing the other two all the time just want someone to help me out and to be there every now and again
I am the same. I just want a good friend and if sex happens it is a nice little bonus. All this other stuff people want these days is just too damn demanding. Whatever happened to forging good friendships first and going from there. People want it all and they want it right now.
The last guy had his life together we were really great together he was awesome with my son and I expressed my interest and that was it he married some chick he'd only just me a week earlier that I introduced him to... I thought he was good
sounds like you probably dodged a bullet there to be fair. All you can realy do is be yourself.. the right person will come along. just don't discount anyone based on their look. there are a lot of GOOD peo0ple out there too
I don't judge people by their looks or body type I am in no position to be so shallow/picky about that stuff. I have always explained it that I am bisexual I love everyone I don't think anyone is ugly I think some people have ugly souls that's what I want is to connect with some one on a deeper level... or even someone to talk to really
Thats a very good outlook to have to be honest.So where have you tried meeting people?
Going out, through friends, online even. In my town There's not very much else I can do I'm not a bar bunny I don't hop from bar to bar to find somebody I just want somebody to see me for once to chase me I don't know make me feel Worthy
mistake number one there. Dont rely on someone else to make you feel worthy.. your worth is determined by you and you alone! be comfident in yourself.. that is the single most attractive attribute a woman can have is confidence.Ever tried Speed dating? maybe even places like plenty of fish or Ok Cupid? It's not unheard of to find people there
No speed dating around here I'm on Plenty of Fish and OkCupid and every time I get on there it's hey girl want to smash I'm not that way I'm going to bang somebody just because and as far as the confidence thing goes I have no clue how to find that for myself when my whole life has been if you were just a little bit thinner or a little bit prettier
Sounds like you had a pretty rough time growing up :( I@m sorry
Growing up I was skinny (still short) long pretty hair when I hit my teen years and boys were becoming interesting to me I was only interesting to them because I filled out my shirt better than the girls that were around me but I also started getting bigger when all that happened just went from there and my family was always good to me always told me I was pretty and I didn't mean to be thinner and I was okay and it but I feel like your family is programmed to say stuff like that to you because they're your family
And to be honest there's no need to be sorry about it I mean my mom was not the greatest mom in the world but we have a good relationship now my dad and I have always had a pretty decent relationship my grandparents were the best grandparents in the entire world I had a crap ton of aunts and uncles and cousins to be around me all day everyday and took me in when things went South with my mom I have a good job because of how they raised me and I know how to raise my son by not following in my mother's footsteps but unfortunately like my mother my love life sucks my goal in life was never to have multiple boyfriends were marriages never been married so that I'm not worried about that but I watch my mom go through multiple boyfriends and for failed marriages and I swore to myself that I would not let my son see me do that I didn't mean that my son was never going to see me in a relationship ever
well that is true to a certain extent yeah. but. you are what you make yourself. personality goes a long way. i would rather be with an average looking girl with a great personality than a good looking one who was a bit of a C**t any day
Oh I definitely try not to be a c**t lol I think I have a pretty decent personality I mean I try to make people laugh every time I'm around them but I don't know if guys take that as need being mainly or what I'm not a girly girl in anyway I mean I guess I paint my nails and do my hair and stuff but I don't fix my hair everyday I don't do makeup everyday I like makeup I know that makes me sound shallow but I do I like makeup I just can't do it very well so I don't do it very often
the single biggest thing you can do for yourself (and maybe the hardest one) is to work on your self confidence and confidence in general.. Men are attracted to confidence.
I'm confident that I will be single for a while longer cuz i don't have the best self confidence
well my advice is... work on that first and the rest wil follow :)
I am a calm peaceful soul I like to keep balance in my life I don't like to go crazy and party all the time but I can hang when in the mood I have short 2 toned hair brown eyes and a thicker frame
When a man is with a woman on a date, he is looking for an escape from his reality. To men most girls are a part of a fantasy world. So they tend to lose interest if they don't find it in you
Great not only am I undateable I am not interesting as well I'm screwed
I'm not saying you're not interesting. Just saying there is a lot of give and take in such cases
I try to be interesting I'd try to make people laugh and keep a smile on their face when they're around but I just don't really know a whole lot of guys to be honest I usually when I have had boyfriends before my friends have introduced me to them and my son's dad was actually he was cousin of her ex-husband and she showed him a picture of me and he told her he was going to meet me and that was over a weekend and he jumped in the car and drove 6 hours to meet me and ended up staying here and my home state for 2 months before going back to his to continue work and I ended up moving there our relationship lasted almost 2 years but he cheated and I wasn't having it
It's tough. You seem to be someone who sees the reality in relationships. This is so that you don't get hurt by the smaller issues in a relationship. However the guys you seek seem to want you to get away from that reality
It's the worst feeling