Most Helpful Guys
I have done this. I was having a long distance relationship with a girl, never went out in person, never kissed, heck I still never had a first date, or kiss in general, and I am still a virgin.
But I loved telling her how much she meant to me, and I would flirt with her all the time over the phone, and tell her how important she is, and how much I like her, and how beautiful she is. But when she wanted to visit me, I got cold feet and chickend out. I don't know why, maybe the thought of everything becoming official. Everything being real, no longer just over the phone. It was to much. I was younger, immature, and I wasn't at the point in my life where I would have been a good boyfriend to any girl. Call me old fashioned but I believe a man should provide. And I wasn't ready, mentally or financially to be a good boyfriend, a boyfriend she deserved so I kept her at arms length and put a gap between us, because I wanted to be with her, but I would rather she move on and find someone else, than waste her time with me. I still believe that.
She didn't want to be "just friends" and left. I still miss our friendship. I have made many mistakes in my life, especially when it comes to distancing myself from friendships, feelings, and such with female friends.
But I still stand by my choices because I know that they are all doing better without me. As I would have held them back. I am still trying to better myself and I am currently talking to a new girl I met on a dating site very recently, after I figured I would give it a try, and things are going well. I don't know if I will finally have my first ever date, and it be with her, or if God has other plans, and it's still not my time...
But I do know one thing, and that is it will all eventually work itself out. I have faith in God and I trust he will bring the right girl into my life at the right time, and it will all work out.
And the same can be said for you
Well, there could be many reasons, most probabpy he is afraid of telling you something, and by the looks of it its something huge since its been one year. Could be small penis (if you ask directly if he has a micro penis it could help). Just beeing honest, best of luck
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Most Helpful Girls
It usually means they got someone else in their area already and are just passing time talking to you because maybe he is married and just bored with his relationship. You really want someone who bangs a girl within 3 hrs of meeting her? Sounds like a player to me. I'm sure you could do better. This is the problem with LDR's, you never know what the hell is going on at the other end. They may be interested at first, but if they find someone in their own stomping grounds, who do you think they will pick? And he may have found that "closer" person and is now just seeing how it works out while still keeping you hooked on the line.