Most Helpful Guys
You just have to rebuild trust and keep being kind and sweet. You dealt a tough blow. You said one of the worse things in implying you like someone else and went out and stuff. Hopefully in time it gets better if not then you know with the next relationship not be so careless with your words.
Actions matter more than words.
Any time if someone says something negative about him you should defend him so maybe he will believe you didn't mean the negative things you said about him.
It was pretty messed up, and you can't expect him to believe you really care just because you said sorry.
Most Helpful Girls
Ah, well I see the issue here. I think it's going to take him time to recover from this. In the meantime, you need to show him you truly care and love him. Start changing your actions; stop bringing him down, start bringing him up. I vent to my friends about my boyfriend sometimes, but I've learned it never really helps and I usually take things into my own hands because it's MY relationship. Of course you can discuss things with your friends, but I'd keep most of the relationship private because it's YOUR relationship. If there's a problem, you need to discuss it with your partner, not your friends. having others input can really ruin a relationship. I'd do something nice for him, like buy him something he wants if you can afford it, take him out to dinner and you pay, do his favorite activity. Just do something that shows you're making an effort and this is your way of starting fresh.