boyfriend had glanced at her butt because it was out.. so eventually we leave the water and go back to go sit down and have some snacks and my boyfriend left to go change the babies diaper.. I was looking to see where that girl was and she was no where to be found.. and then the minute when me and my boyfriend and son go back inside the water she comes out of no where and is right by us again.. except this time my boyfriend went out farther in the water with our son and I could’ve sworn that that girl went right infont of him at about 3 feet from him and had her ass out right in front of his face and at this point I could’ve SWORN that I seen him turn his head and looked down at her ass... I walked up to him and said “let’s go home “ because I couldn’t not believe he would disrespect me like that.. when we got to the towels he asked me what was wrong and I told him how he was looking at that girls ass and he innocently said he wasn’t looking and looked at me like He was baffled.. I honestly don’t know what to believe because that girl kept going near him like she thought he was cute and probably seen him look at her butt so she kept on entertaining him.. my bfs dad died 3 years ago and they passed the ashes there at the beach we went too.. so when we left I told him to swear on his dad that he didn’t look at her butt and he swore on his dad his grandpa and our son that he was not looking at her.. I seriously don’t know if he was to lie and do that that’s messed up but apart of me feels like he was looking and just doesn’t want to admit the truth.. on our sons birthday too? This just makes me feel so bad about myself
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This is some psycho shit. You got all mad and decided to leave because maybe he looked at somebody. He's got a kid with you, he's probably pretty serious about it. That kind of paranoid possession is crazy unhealthy.
Most men look at other women, especially if they are cute, have their ass sticking out, and have their ass in the guy's face. (BTW, wouldn't she need to be about 9 feet tall if they were both standing and she had her ass in his face?) Looking doesn't mean anything except that he is healthy. If you think you are going to find a guy who will never look at another woman - even if she is cute and has her ass hanging out - then you will live a life of misery. From your description, he didn't even talk to her. . . and he went home with you. Paranoid jealousy will kill most every relationship you ever hope to have so you need to get a handle on it.
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He probably did look, but its not like he was downright flirting with her or creepy eyeing her and getting super aroused, chill, even id have a look and admire someone for their beauty. It didn't mean anything.