I'm about to ask a fairly serious question from the person that I like, thoughts?
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Ok so your first and major problem is that there is a three year gap you are giving yourself. I don't think waiting til she's 18 is necessary. At 16 she is of consent. I'm not saying that your goal is to have sex with her let's be honest, it's in the cards for sure and will become important down the road.
So the second thing I have to say is that you need to be aware that that long paragraph might do well in a Lifetime movie, it most likely won't work in real life. She'll interrupt or say something you aren't expecting. Just don't assume you'll be able to say that whole thing to her. Unless you tell her that she needs to wait and listen to what you have to say.
Third thing, she might be scared since you both seem to have a good thing going. If she realizes you like her romantically it adds a whole new layer to this deck of cards and she might be uncomfortable with it.
She hopefully will accept your proposal but that isn't a guarantee and bringing this out might backfire horribly. And if it does, well it's gonna change and break everything for both of you.
Fourth and final, if she accepts know that she might have her own thoughts on this. Maybe she doesn't want to wait the three years. Which I don't believe you need to do anyway.
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