There’s a girl named Jessica who’s dating a guy named Anthony (to out into perspective).
Anthony won’t let and is not comfortable with Jessica going over to her guy friends. But Anthony has a female friend named Lisa.
He went to visit his female friend Lisa, who did not want to meet Jessica at all. Lisa is scuicidal. Her father killed her self when she was little. She’s now out of high school and is depressed but not depressed enough to go out camping with friends who are mostly guys and one girl. She’s not depressed enough to go meet Anthony.
Anthony hangs with Lisa when Jessica is busy. Anothnoy didn’t tell Jessica who Lisa was and Jessica thought Lisa was a girl anothny once told her about, but was actually a different girl. Anthony went to visit Lisa at her house when she felt “scuiciadal” and later they hung in her bedroom. Thoughts?
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There is something off with this situation. The fact that Anthony is lying to Jessica is a red flag, even if he isn't cheating on her. Also, Anthony cannot have an expectation of Jessica not to hang out with guys alone if he is going to be hanging out with a girl alone. Again, if he had been straightforward with Jessica about this situation it might have been okay, but the deception is problematic
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I'd at least want to know the situation, I wouldn't prevent my partner from helping a depressive friend. I'd also want to meet the girl, but I know how depression can lead to social anxiety so I guess I'd understand if she didn't feel confortable meeting me