Have you ever experienced going back to dating “normal” after having dated someone out of your league? How did it feel?
What Guys Said 2
I don't think I consciously thought About it- it was just different.
Felt fine to me. I suppose the closest to that happening was one time when I dated a swimsuit model, and I don't know what she saw in me exactly. I thought of myself as reasonably attractive and in good shape and maybe "exotic" to some women for my biracial looks, but not the type to be interesting swimsuit models with all sorts of good-looking guys practically lining up for her attention while I didn't want to bother (sometimes I think the only reason she was interested in me is because I didn't show that level of awe towards her that many other guys did and just treated her like a normal person).
And she was actually sweet and fun-loving and easy-going, into dancing and karaoke and with a very gentle demeanor in spite of a killer bod. So it wasn't like she was some conceited bitchy type as some might stereotypically think of a model. Yet being with her "humanized" her a lot to a degree. Even in a crude sexual context, I was so excited at first to undress her after seeing her photoshoots, but she was human enough. She had imperfections when everything came off and I saw her up close and personal.
And that experience actually might have had the effect of making me less excited about such eye-catching girls since I didn't see that big of a difference from one who was still reasonably good-looking. That relationship was short-lived since she it became long-distance when she had to go to the Phillipines for a photoshoot, but at the end I found myself perfectly happy to date girls afterwards who weren't models.
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