It's my chore.I have a crush I obsess over them.. Until I have next one.
Yes so I avoid everyone
Do you really?
Yes. I get easily obsessed with some people although a few. But I prefer to not get close to anyone to avoid that from happening. So now I'm trying to avoid everyone.
Have an opinion?
My god yes and it neatly killed me
Could you please share your story with me?
via message or?
I'll message ya because its quite lengthy... lots of nuances.
We were coworkers and we had our little cliche did breaks and lunches congregated in the cafeteria got close knew everything about each other over the course of time. Wasn't even really attracted to her all that much. Then one day for really no reason at all, suddenly liked her, began to get nervous and continued how I was doing with chatting, falling harder more than I realized, I wondered if she felt it too
I was telling a friend about her and asking what i should do over a weekend and when we got to work Monday she acted like something was bugging her wouldn't really say nothing. Lunch, she's not there and walks up and announced that she obviously had a stalker that had a crush on her didn't mention names but basically told them exactly what me and friend were talking about.. come to find out he messaged and told her
Things were immediately different, she unfriended me blocked me on all social media and at work. avoided any and all interaction with me, sat on the far end pulling up chairs from another table. Leave conversations if I joined or added my two cents etc. Acknowledged everyone but me no eye contact. Went on for a good year and a half. Each time I tried to make it right it would be worse
One day before work I went up to her and said hey how are you? No reply. I apologized if i offended her or whatever (something happened) and she sat there not looking at me staring straight ahead at her monitor and said I accept your apology. All she said. At that point the stuff continued as it had always had ( i thought aplogy would fix things) remained blocked and everything. I wanted for things to back and I woulda been fine with that. Demeanor never changed... until
I ended up leaving for another job within the company. Out of nowhere she skypes me asking how I'm doing. Every so often reveals more about her life to me voluntarily? Asks me opinions on stuff, asks me questions about things I used to talk about I even forgot about. Said she's applied to like three different positions in my dept and asking extensive details about how my office is. Asked me after like two months of NC did i have a good Christmas, Closes skypes with goodnight and uses pink text. Says she's works from home now etc. Ya know random stuff
This girl never knewi dont believe that I literally drove home a lot of days upset and miserable. Then at night be waking up thinking of her. Its like at first it didn't bother me, but then I got so curious I wanted her so bad I can hardly stand it. Unblocked... but she won't accept my request stays pending.
See... you're stumped as well.. You haven't replied
Hi just reading it now. Im sorry to hear that you wasted your time on this girl that soudns very rude!
Well I dont know what it really means. I mean if the person went to great lengths to avoid and not want the person to know anything about them, then why reestablish contact and volunteer information on your own? I didn't even ask, she just starts bringing it up out of the blue.
Kinda once, but I'm getting over it.
How long and how long did it take you to get over it?
Yes a few times
No I haven’t
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