The thing is, he is being sarcastic and offending at times. Whenever we chat or last time we dated he was irritable. few days ago i was kinda feeling bad and i told him in chat i was kinda upset since he messaged me first. But he replied with”why did you fck another guy?” It was so weird. Im only dating him. And i dont sleep around since my last boyfriend. I was very offended and i was thinking what kind of reply was that and in his defense he said that he didn't get my message he didn’t understand why im upset so he said that.
Whenever i tell him to cut it out whenever he is sarcastic he will say he has dry humor or im sensitive
I can ghost him. My friend told me to never reply to him but inthink its not mature to ghost so i was thinking to message him. What do you guys think? What should i do? I dont want to talk and date him anymore at first he was great, now he seems rude
I get it sometimes it can be joke but he usually accuses me of things. And its to the point that its hurtful
Most Helpful Guy
I’ve been ghosted even when I wasn’t a jerk. If you do want to take the mature route, just straight up tell him you don’t appreciate his mannerisms of being rude and sarcastic. Tell him you don’t want someone that makes you feel bad.
Most Helpful Girl
I'd just message him and sort of say, look, it has been really lovely to meet you and spend time with you but I feel like we're two very different people and I don't think we're romantically compatible. That way, it's left open to friendship if he so wishes. I would however maybe try and find out why he's like the way he is and potentially direct him to a doctor or psych.