Most Helpful Guy
If your apology for the police thing was to sext him, that would be the 1st red flag for me.
Why would you think being blunt would keep him keen? Who wants to have a conversation with someone who gives one word answers and doesn't help the conversation flow.
After all that, he has no reason to make plans with you because you don't seem interested.
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think you lost him yet but I think what the situation is is that he wanted a emotional relationship and he feels like all you guys do is ignore each other due to busy schedules or have sex when you guys get together. No talking, no hugs, no affection - he may also be wondering how many other guys you did this with.