Now there's this guy who is trying to get me out of my comfortzone and wants me to talk about my feelings but I don't know how and I'm scared.
- Never liked someone
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Yes it is especially if the feelings are very strong like for me I can't get this girl out of my head
She's constantly on my mind all day every day
I took the leap of faith and told her how I felt maybe a little too early when we first started to hangout. I've never felt so vulnerable in my life
What gave me the courage to say it to her was that I was convinced she felt the same way.
But she didn't and lead me on making fun of my " feelings for her "with her friends
But f*ck it. It's not the the of the world.
Am still here continuing looking for someone new
The question is.. do you *want* to let him in?
You haven't said whether you like him enough to even go there. If you do, don't break them down.. let him do it.
It's common for people to build walls when they have been hurt, because they are scared of getting hurt again - and that's okay!
But you are in control of how quickly you let him in. Take it slow and let him in only when you are comfortable enough to trust him. That can take time and there is no time limit, so don't feel pressured from him (or you) thinking you gotta tell him everything as soon as he wants it.
Look after you and your heart!