Most Helpful Guys
I honestly don't know.
You two should probably talk more about this.
Try to find out what he wants and think more about what exactly you want.
Does what you want *require* marriage?
It's possible that the two of you are after different things and that you *should* find someone else.
However I don't think you know enough yet to give up on this relationship.
You two need to talk more with eachother...
And you need to work out what he is after in a wife and if he wants to get married in the first place.
And *why* he wants the things he wants.
That said, try not to *demand* these things from him.
Just ask him and try to make things casual if you can.
Did he explain WHY he believes you are not wife material?
Most Helpful Girl
You need to find out what he wants. Like my guy and I will never get married, as there is no need to. We are quite content just living together.
Maybe this is what your guy wants. Just to live together. Do not walk away yet, unlit you have been honest, open and explored all options.