- Emotionally unavailable?
- Intimacy issues?
Help! I always run away from guys and end up hurting them. How can I stop doing this?
What Guys Said 1
I think you're just afraid because relationships are something you know nothing of yet. It's normal to be afraid of the unknown. You can't know for sure there's something wrong with you until you try to be in a relationship with a guy you want and think would be good for you. When that happens, all this fear might go away.
What Girls Said 1
It sounds to me like maybe you could use some advice from someone who has a successful marriage/long term relationship. Ask close friends or family to see how they were able to figure out what kind of person was right for them, where they found love, how they stay connected to their partner. I never had a good role model for relationships and I had to learn everything through trial and error. I do not recommend that path. Maybe you could find a mentor to help show you what works and give you real guidance or maybe read some relationship books. It sounds like you're trying and are willing to work at it. Just be patient with yourself. I have no doubt that things will get easier for you as you learn and mature.
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