so its been a while since I've had a girlfriend probably 6 years or so. I've been on dates.i do make friends , I'm social and everything. but when it comes to having a girlfriend now when in college it seems a bit difficult. now there is always the whole thing I get from people like , its college , you shouldnt get a girlfriend , go to clubs and what not. the thing is , I've been to clubs/bars/parties. and I'm ready to settle down a bit. now when it comes to all these girls , they talk on how they want a nice guy, who wants a good future, works. and would treat them right. its like hello? I consider myself to be nice, honest, I work full time. and I take about 3-4 classes each semester in college. I'm going for dentist , its not like that will be a bad future. I don't think I'm bad looking either. I'm pretty confident with the way I look , but I seem to never meet the right girl who wants to settle down a bit and take it easy. its always the party girls or the girl who can't do a thing because they still live with the family and plays by those rules. I'm only asking for a nice healthy relationship? :(
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the only reason why you aren't finding the right person isn't because your looking in the wrong spots its because its not the right time.you have to find bad ones and good ones and loose them in order to find the right one and realize its the right one. And maybe you are secure with yourself but maybe you don't kno something you need to figure out. look deep into yourself and see what you need to fix, I mean like little insecurities. I find that when I'm confident in myself people tend to come to me. I don't find them, they find me. and when you hold your head up high and show you know who you are and what your looking for they will notice that and come to you.
but be sure DO NOT act tooo cocky. Girls don't like that. well I know I hate guys who think too highly of themselves. a little cockiness is okay but not too much
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