I am a big time workaholic and prefer happy hours over romantic dates.. My ex boyfriend and I broke up a while back because I wasn't really feeling it anymore. He said I seemed too distant and I agree with him. I got very busy with work and then I realized we just didn't have much in common anymore. I could not give him as much time as he deserved. Is it wrong to put your career above everything else? I am so young atm and I don't find interest in planning a future with a guy.. in fact, I get scared when guys talk about that on a date or even with my ex. I dont want things to be planned out for me already.. is anyone else feeling this right now? and what makes guys say that I am emotionally unavailable?
Sorry for the rant but appreciate the responses!