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If I was you I wouldn't do it because he's fresh out of a relationship you don't know if he'll go back again and you got to give him time to decide what he wants it's never good to jump from one relationship to another you need a minute in between to get your head right if nothing else. Just give me some time be friends hang out a little bit enjoy one another and let things take a natural progression and wherever it goes It goes Don't Force It just let it happen
Okay seriously, no it's not a turn off. Not at our ages. We're not teens, and he sounds like a reasonably confident guy that's just struggling to read you a little.
If your personality is generally serious, I'd just lay it out to him. More or less like you just did. "Look, I didn't say or do anything before because you were trying to work things out with someone else and I respected that, but now... I'm just wishing that you had sent me that text when you weren't wasted, because I don't know if you really feel that way or not, but I'm into you." That's leaving the door miles wide open for him of course, so, you know, put your own spin on it and he'll respond I'll bet.
If you've got a funny personality... I'd just make it a challenge "Look buddy, are you going to get your ass in gear and actually ask me out here so I can actually tell you I'm into you, or do I have to just keep wondering for a while if you just think I'm 'nice'?"