Should I give my ex another try? Last time we dated she was very verbally and mentally abusive, when I was going through a bad depression slump I held a shotgun under my chin ready to pull the trigger but put it away when I heard my mothers car pulling in. When I was going in to bakeract myself she told me I was fine and we could do counseling (only dated for 6 months) and now she's gone to jail and is facing a felony. She has nothing left and is asking me to give her another chance and that she's changed. And i don't know what to do.