As of February of this year my 22 years of marriage has ended, but not officially because the papers haven't been filed and with certain events that has happened we live as roommates to help each other out. We are still friends. She has her room and I have my room. Financially we both are trying to get back on our feet. I do have debt to take care of but here's the question. I know it's over between us, we're friends and she has someone. So do I try to find someone now or should I wait till I'm completely on my feet financially? And ladies would you take a chance on dating a guy like me, who's in this position or not?