Most Helpful Guy
If you want a sporty guy, go to a the park. If you want a nerdy guy, go to the arcade or library. If you want a gamer guy, online games are a hit. If you want a smooth talking player, go to a bar. If you want an introvert, good luck with that.
Effort is required by both people to have a relationship. Not many people will come up to you to start a relationship for the same reason you won't go up to strangers to start a relationship, fear of rejection. If you want a new friend, you gotta be assertive about it and just do it. Life will happen when you make it happen.
Most Helpful Girl
Oh god I relate so much to this.
I think maybe you care too much of being liked, seeking validation that it kind of backfires lol people like when others are themselves. It a confidence thing I think