Most Helpful Girl
Somehow I lucked in to mine and you will too. Just gotta try new things.
I worked a minimum wage job and met a guy in the drive through. Talked to him long distance and when he ghosted me I became super depressed and signed up for match. Met my man within a few days of being signed on.
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Most Helpful Guys
Find a way to be happy that doesn't involve being in a romantic relationship. If that's the only way for you to be happy, technically you don't deserve to be happy. You have to be happy or content with yourself to spread the positive energy to someone you meet. A significant other is good for helping cheer you up, but I don't think they should be the sole source of your happiness.
First, think about the bright side. Think of the pros that come with being single. Next, why do you want or need a partner? Why not have a ton of friends instead? Stay in touch with them. Next, focus on who you are. What kind of person are you? What do you like/dislike? Next, What are your desires in a partner? What do you want? Are those things realistic expectatuons? No one is perfect. You're gonna have to give something up. And finally, don't let others see the unhappiness within you. It's a big turn off. People want to be surrounded by those that are confident and can improve their lives. So show some strength and power.