Is being shy a turn off?

I went on a date with a girl recently. Picked her up in my car and went to a coffee shop. As she was going to pay for her coffee, I put my hand on her purse and told her to put that away, and paid for her. Talked for a while until the shop closed, then sat on a bench in a nice garden. We continued talking, laughing, but I feel as if she wanted me to make a move. I wanted to, but every time I looked into her eyes, butterflies came over me.
I'm a guy who really hasn't dated, or done anything. Would this be a turnoff?
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  • It's funny how guys think it's cute when a girl is why, but if a guy is shy, then OMG HE'S A PUSSY.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm a shy guy too. I blush easily, as I'm rather fair-skinned. But another problem is, I find it hard to tell if a girl is coming on to me. Just the other week, a girl I know told me how bad she needed a penis. I couldn't tell if she meant MY penis, or just penises in general.

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  • It is not a turnoff for most women unless you are immobilized with uncertainty and she gets tired of waiting for you.

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What Guys Said 9

  • It's a Problem for a guy, yes, but she can tell you are, so she might have to give you some encouragement.

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  • If its turnoff for her, you wouldn't want to be with her anyway. Don't think about it that hard. Just tell her if you feel like she should now.

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  • Yes a lot of women will see it as a turn off as they require confedance

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  • Definitely, for both genders for me.

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  • nope thats cool

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  • yes dude

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  • Yes...

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  • in my experience, I've never had the movie treatment - shy dude finds girl who likes him for who he is and falls in love

    I've just tried to push through the shyness as best i can

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  • If you're a guy then yes. A lot of women on here say they like shy guys but out in the real world they don't. Actually if you're shy in the real world then a lot of women will make fun of you.

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