He has EVERY right to use the app and date people because we haven’t had any discussion about exclusivity. However, I can’t help but feel a little hurt/offended/turned off by the whole thing. It may be his right to do that, but I also don’t have to be okay with him clearly looking for an easy pit-of-town hookup. I don’t know if that’s fair and I’d love some other perspectives on this. Girls and guys, what do you think and how would you feel?
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I mean, yeah, he has every right to, but, if he has agreed to "move forward," then realistically, he shouldn't be searching for easy pussy. That's not usually what people do when they have intentions with another. But, you guys aren't exclusive, so, I guess he can.
So, in short: Yes, you can be upset about it and tell him he has the right to do what he wants, but you don't want to be involved with someone who is actively seeing other people.