Should I be worried about my boyfriend being insecure?

I’ve noticed mainly when he is drunk, he becomes insecure about things. Firstly, he is worried that when I go back to school (in a few days), i will forget about him. Or, I’ll meet someone else and leave him. He said there’s a better chance of me meeting someone than there is for him. Also, somehow the discussion came on about sexual partners. He has has way more partners than I have. He doesn’t know my number, and he said he doesn’t want to know. But, he was getting upset (but did so in a joking way), about how I’ve had more sex than he did. Because he only had sex with the girls he did about 1-2 times or so. He also talks about how I am a lot better than him. That i am so much kinder, and more considerate and smarter and a better human being.

Sometimes he talks about this stuff when he isn’t drunk. But, the other day we both got pretty drunk together and he just seemed so insecure and worried about things. I don’t know what to think. I am worried it could become worse. I hope it doesn’t.


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What Guys Said 2

  • This is the kind of mentality of really insecure people. Maybe he thinks if you dump him he won't get another girl, or at least for a very long while and that you can pick up guys whenever. I think you should reassure him let him know you there to stay

  • Your guy is so lost tell him how much you love and want him and that you will be there for him we all get a bit like that


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