Two weeks ago he was telling me how gorgeous I was and how he loved my body.
I’m very hurt. He really destroyed my self esteem and broke my heart.
I feel like I’m disgusting. I’ve never been treated this way. I’m considered a beautiful girl in general.
I want to do a 360. Lose weight, change my makeup, and do well in life.
Most Helpful Guys
Yes, it is the best revenge. Your method works because you're preoccupied with becoming beautiful and successful. This allows you to meet other guys and have sex. It speeds up your recovery and then you forget. That's the theory behind that type of revenge.
The best way to deal this betrayal is to forgive, but do not forget.
Forgive yourself for being an idiot this one time. Laugh at how you actually fell for this loser that no decent human being would associate with. But it's okay, almost everyone dates someone like this.
Do not forget the lesson this taught you. The lesson that compliments are mere words. Don't forget that sweet words can harvest hidden agendas. Do not trust pretty words. Actions speaks truth,
Revenge will work it's own course and bite him back much harder. I'm not talking about karma. If he's an asshole like this to women. He might get away with it this time. He will strike again and again. Some girl in the future is waiting for these type of guys.
Some girl will read him like an open book. Women can be cold and dark. His judgement is eminent. It's a dangerous number's game he's playing. It's in due time.
Right now vent out and you'll feel better :)
Most Helpful Girl
So after he got sex he was no longer interested? Revenge is not always sweet. Maybe you got off lucky before you invested any more time in this bozo. Don't do anything for revenge, do it for you. Who knows, maybe this just motivated you to do something you already knew needed to be done.