He was asking me what I wanted to get out of this, and I told him I wasn’t looking for anything in particular, that I was just chilling, but that if him and I happened to get closer and if we ever both wanted an actual relationship, then I would gladly allow myself to jump in to one with him. He told me he felt the same way, and that he doesn’t have much time for relationships due to school and his work schedule, but that if he and the girl he was seeing was willing to put in the time and effort, then he would want it to work. So both of us have agreed that we’re just going to see how this goes with each other.
But I want him, like really want him. I know we’re both very attracted to each other, we both get along well, he told me that he always assumed I was a super blunt and honest person but that when he began talking to me, he realized I was hilarious and fun and nothing what he was expecting. He complimented genuine things about me, and so I know he feels something. How do I get him to want more with me? How can I be the center of his attention vs another girl? I know he thinks I’m special, and I really do want to date him.