So I texted him, and he replied me the next night apologizing that he had a surgery until very late night. And he said he thinks he's getting off at a reasonable time the next day so he will text me to see. So I said okay, then the next day came, nothing again! I didn't even bother to text him and it's been two days without any text.
I DO NOT UNDERSTAND! When we text, he flirts and he keeps the convo going. Even the text that does not need any further reply, he asks me what I am up to, or ask things about me. But I feel like when it comes to time to meet up, he kinda just disappears.
What is he thinking? Does he think maybe I'm too young? I'm 20 years younger than him, can this be a problem? Or is he just really busy and tired that he couldn't possibly meet up?
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I don't think age is the issue. I say that because recently I got engaged (I'm 21 and he's 36) and he is also a surgeon. Anyways, when someone truly cares about you they make an effort to make things work, not just disappear. If the feelings are mutual, the effort will definitely be equal.