anyway, if the other person is more dominant than I am, i back off and if its romantically/sexually I kinda run away lol. I feel like this has caused me to miss out on a lot of dating/relationships since a lot of guys aren't submissive at all and i can't seem to handle that.
i feel like i should elaborate but ill stop here before it becomes too long hah
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I think that some balance is important, so I'd recommend learning to curb yourself and listen to the desires of your partner.
That said, a lot of guys are into dominant women, and it can absolutely be a turn on. Just remember that being dominant and being domineering are two different things. A controlling person is toxic, but a dominant person is sexy.
some people are driven to control. there are some who "need" that type of person in their relationship in order for them to function. we once had a neighbor that - for whatever reason - couldn't make up his mind or bring himself to take action. the dominant gal was his savior. i considered her pushy and controlling, but that's what he needed - not me.
i've always been partial to those who know what they want and go for it w/o being over the top.