Most Helpful Guy
You know what you say when you assume. You make an (ass) out of (u) and (me). Perhaps
And yes, obviously you can go "that far" just because you like someone. Sex is low risk to men. Sex is high risk to women. You could legit die if you have sex. We won't. Your reproductive strategy is "Find the best sperm". Because? You have eggs. Eggs are finite. And if you fuck the wrong guy, that's 9 months of wasted time, while also putting you in a vulnerable position for survival. So, naturally, you're going to be a bit more careful. Even in the modern age with birth control, our instincts don't know that.
Whereas, men have sperm. How would you best use an infinite, yet low value resource? You sell as much of it as possible. Meaning, you fuck as many bitches as you can.
Those are the natural impulses. Humans are also believe/thought + social conditioning, along with instinct, so it varies from person to person. But every man will have that urge to stick his dick in the chick walking past him in yoga pants. It's just going to be there. He doesn't have to listen to it. But it will be there. Married or not, in love or not. It will be there.
Honesty *is* a synonym of rejection. Are you kidding me? Relationships are built on lies. From women trying to find the perfect angle for their Tinder pic, that makes them look like they don't weigh 300 pounds, to men pretending they graduated from Harvard. Everybody lies.
The average person won't lie quite to this extent--though they would if they needed to. But lying, either outright lies or lies by omission, are *INTEGRAL* to dating. Lies are the foundations of relationships.
The name of the game is *HIDE THE FLAWS!* *HIDE THE FLAWS*
Most Helpful Girl
I believe that's his reason too. Because he doesn't want anything serious with you but he doesn't want you to know because u might change your mind if you knew the truth.
I just feel bad for his wife and kids.