Some suggestions and tips for a first date?

I'm going out with a girl I met at a friend's party (wasn't really a party), my friend says we should go to the park she likes, although I know she likes those bohemian/underground bars where hipsters go. It's in the evening after work so i'm not sure which one is better?

We're both going back to uni in a week or two (she's going to France, I'm going to England), so a relationship is unlikely. But I'm really afraid to make moves because I've never gone out with friends of friends, also last time I did anything was May and now its September. Should I be more direct or keep it low?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Be bold and adventurous and most important yourself.

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    • Haha i'll try, although not sure how much she likes me to be bold with her

    • By bold I don't mean jump on her break her spine lol more like enjoy the moment.

Most Helpful Guys

  • She also knows it will be a short fling so treat it that way. Or course be respectful and don’t be a pervert but she is expecting to have fun on the date (making out) otherwise why would she have agreed to go out with you knowing you go to different schools soon.

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  • Don't sweat it. The nerves will creep up, but you've got to remind yourself that the stakes in this one are low. Take her somewhere you'd both like. The park is a great idea, because there won't be too much to overstimulate your nerves. Get some ice cream, and go for a walk. If things go well, there, you can venture to somewhere interesting, like one of those bars.
    If things continue to climb, invite her over for a nightcap. Have a glass of wine, and kick back. One thing may lead to another. :)
    Good luck, man, and congratulations! Worst case scenario, you're gaining experience.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Ask her directly where she wants to go and take her there

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  • Take it slow, and ask her where she wants to go, that way she'll have fun. And maybe it can work out between you two. Shell know you like hearing her.

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What Guys Said 8

  • Go ask her out, choose where you want to go and invite her. Even if she is moving, you are still better off experiencing something than nothing.

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  • Active more than passive, that you can talk. Nature and trees improves it a lot.

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  • Make him and you calm and let each other do so you feel good

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  • Chuck E Cheeses.

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  • Take her to a nice picnic.

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  • Just be yourself and good luck

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  • Nothing expensive for The first date

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  • Be normal dont hurry to do anything

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