I dont know when it's even the right time to ask her.
She always seem to be busy. For example, this labor day weekend. I ask her 1 week in advance to go on Monday and she said " ill be sweaty and stinky" (she's in band). Ok. 3 days before the weekend I ask again if she want to do it on Friday instead. She said sure. Thursday came by i asked again to make sure if she can make it. She said no cause she forgot she had something for band. Sure. I asked again "we have a 4 days weekend. You pick time and day." After i texted she never responded. Am i putting too much effort into her but she is not doing the same? Even though i am busy too i seem to be able to squeeze some time for her. I feel like she is too busy for a relationship.