Most Helpful Guy
Putting aside issues of culture and language and how Italians view love, which is very different from America obviously in a lot of respects I think the fact that you are concerned about him still being around her so much is a valid concern. Even though they were in a serious relationship and had some obvious history together there is still no reason why he should be around her anymore at all; he most certainly should not be naked around her at all anymore. I mean, how long does it take to get your stuff? It sounds like in some ways he doesn't want to or is finding it hard to move on. I think you should sit down and talk to him and tell him that you feel this behavior is unacceptable and that he needs to get his stuff, separate from her and move on. You shouldn't have to put up with that, he should be ready for an exclusive relationship with you
Most Helpful Girl
This sounds suspicious girl. I think you should end it with him. If he is too comfortable with her and it's taking such a long time to ' take his stuff' from her apartment, that's a red flag. You don't want to be used as a rebound.