I don’t have any “parents” but I have my grandad who I think of as my dad. My grandad used to be a “London ganster” although he hates that term. By that I mean he was a buissnesman in crime. He’s a lovely guy and has a lot of manners and respect for people. However, a lot of people around where I live know what he used to do as a buissnes and don’t like him. He spent 20 years in jail and was known as “one of England/London’s most dangerous men” at the time. Despite being an incredibly sweet and lovely guy he’s 66 and sees me as a daughter I even call him dad sometimes. He’s quite protective of me since we both lost someone me being my parents and him being his son. Anyway I’m not gonna go into mine and my grandads life too much That’s just a bit of back story. I’ve told my grandad/dad that I’m dating someone and he wants to meet them. He’s gonna meet him Wednesday. My boyfriend is a very sweet guy who’d never have a fight and he’s really funny. I think they’ll get on great. My only consern is my boyfriend isn’t particularly Lairy as such but he sometimes makes quite “out there” jokes. Should I tell my boyfriend about my grandad and if so how should I go about it?