Guys, does a woman’s breast and/butt size matter to you?

How much does the size of a woman’s posterior and bosom matter to you? And, no, this is not a ‘weight’ question but more of a woman’s natural body shape.
  • It matters a lot and determines how attracted I am to you.
    Vote A
  • It matters enough that I wouldn’t go out of my way to make a move if it wasn’t the right size for me
    Vote B
  • It matters a little but I can get over it.
    Vote C
  • Doesn’t matter at all. I just care about your personality.
    Vote D
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  • As much as I would love to say "it doesn't matter at all to me" the reality is that I don't notice women without curves.

    This doesn't mean I wouldn't have an interest in any girl who doesn't meet some "standard" of mine, it just means in order for me to be attracted to a girl without those curves, she and I would have to get to know each other through friends or something. After all, I'm obviously not going to go make a move on a woman I didn't notice.

    To any women reading this (especially if you're young), understand that you should NEVER take a guy saying this as proof that you're body is inadequate. Some of the hottest women I've known, and the ones I've ended up being most attracted to in the end, were girls I wouldn't have noticed at first. There's SO much more to keeping a man's attention long term that EEs or a serious twerk. Those are just ONE way to grab a guy's attention INITIALLY, and the most ambitious, accomplished, intelligent, creative, and confident guys want wayyyyyyy more than some particular figure to find a woman deeply attractive and interesting. Plus, you gotta understand that a naked average woman that's out of her mind wanting to get down with her guy is always going to end up trumping a disinterested girl in a little black dress that's built like a pornstar. Keep that perspective when you evaluate guys and the ways we think, and be confident in your own femininity and the vibrance of your own sexuality.

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    • this is probably the best opinion i’ve read on this site.

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    • seriously, it was honest but not offensive and actually insightful. i had to go stalk your other answers. i love how much thought you put into them!

    • Okay now I'm actually blushing a little! Thank you. Lol just don't read the ones where I lose my temper! #regret!

  • My gf's tits are rather small. They're not flat-chested small but they're definitely smaller than average (granted, I wouldn't know from experience).
    They're small enough that she herself on occasion has self-esteem issues regarding chest size. And when she does I just tell her the same thing. "When I am fucking (her), the last thing running through my mind is 'man her tits are small'. No, more like 'Jesus Christ her pussy feels amazing' or 'I need to suck and lick on those things now' or 'time for a spanking' or something else along those lines". Now as well, she has the perfect ass of any woman period. So that's a huge weight swung the other way. She spends a lot of time on her stomach. Hahah, lol, no, not true. But the perfect ass part is, that thing is spankable.

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  • @lonewolfmeme You also have to understand that it’s ok for people to like certain traits. There’s a reason why men like big boobs and asses, biologically those features trigger something in a mans brain saying “hey this woman could better provide for my future offspring” that’s why women back in the 16,17,18 hundreds wore corsets and wore dresses that were really wide by the hips.

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    • I understand that but more people become single even men that want these things bc they prefer and find it more appealing. No way in hell does attraction have to do with the natural beauty of a girl. If it were women wouldn't be shaming themselves and others for their body.

  • Being a bisexual me too can answer it.
    Breast and butt size matters, because it creates "the first impression"

    However if you are talking about does it matters in sexual desire and satisfaction, then in the size may matters while considering desire BUT IT DOES NOT MATTERS in terms of satisfaction.
    As desire is something which depends on individuals preferred liking and disliking and it varies person to person. However it also may lead to a dissatisfaction that " ah I wish I could ever had sex with a woman having Mellon's", but again it is just a mental status and has nothing to do with the reality.

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  • I voted "C" but it's really of minor importance. I won't say "none", but I'm generally more attracted to smaller women anyway. A huge butt is more of a deal-breaker to me, for example.

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  • Big boobs are a big plus, but that's all- I would not think any less of her if hers were not big.

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  • As much as I'd like to be with a woman who's got an amazing body, I don't think it'd be a deal breaker if she's doesn't, as long as she's not way too big.

    I like different body types too and I don't think one can shapeshift and magically make their body looks like whatever they wanted, as amazing as that would be.

    Face is more important to me, along with personality.

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  • This can be a bit tough. I'll admit, I'm more attracted to some shapes than others. Pears, for instance, are much more attractive to me than apples.
    If a woman has a wide waste and no bottom or curvature in her legs, I'll admit that I'm probably not attracted to her.
    That said, although I thoroughly enjoy flared hips and a thick lower body, I only need a hint of that physique to feel physically attracted to her.
    I feel a bit mad at my bestial nature, at times, but I suppose I like what I like.

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  • Its not about the size, but the shape. You can have small boobs and a small butt, but if its "tight" and nicely shaped, its still going to be attractive.

    Im sure most guys care little about a womans boobs. But for me, and i think for a lot of guys, a womans butt is very important. I would say its the most sexual and attractive part of her body, right next to her legs.

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  • Trust me I am not trying to come across as superficial but for me personally a woman has to have a figure to her, i. e. nice legs, full hips, a nice plump butt, doesn't have to look toned or anything but she has to have a womanly figure to me. For me there has to be some sex appeal. No hate or anything, just my opinion

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  • i voted A simply because i find out having dated different women of different size of boobs and butt i realise i am best attracted to a woman physically by her figures as long as it's not extra big. also i can say figure of a woman helps they guys gravitate around her often.

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  • I've only ended up with women with small or average sized breasts. So I don't really know what big boobs are like they seem all mystical and magical still. But moral of the story, they're stuck with the boobs they got but the butt can always be improved with the right workout routine. My partner literally with from pancake to fitness babe because of the hard work she put in. So if you dont have boobs, work that booty!

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  • Honestly everyone has a preference to what they like. Personally I don't care about the breasts or the ass but if a guy is into it that's his hill to hike up. Doesn't make him any less of a person, just makes him a guy who's attracted to that kind of stuff.

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  • Nah not really. I like a big ass but that's really it, and even then if its shaped well the size can become a non-issue. There are certain women where its like their bodies are unexceptional but they've got faces worth going to war over. There's the ideal you have in your head, which is fluid, and then there's the actual range of women which you're open to

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  • I would place myself between B and C options. It matters to me and how physically attracted i am but i can get over it if the girl is nice besides that. "Can't have it all"

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  • If they were naturally my preferred sizes, that would be nice. However, physical asthetics will fade with time, so a woman's personality matters significantly more than her appearance 🙂

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  • It only matters for initial attraction. A good personality can overcome a size issue and a bad personality can also negatively affect attraction. I don't think I could date a woman that was absolutely flat chested though. Sex and attraction matter, and I feel that would run my sexual attraction.

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  • It's natural for guys to be attracted to the curves of women, that's how we were programmed... it is a good sign of a healthy body for bearing children afterall... but the important thing for you is to find someone who is willing to look past any meaningless flaws, because love is love, and some curves shouldn't stand in the way of that. As for my own opinion, it obviously matters to a certain degree, but I have looked passed that before, so I guess I'm not necessarily picky either...

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  • of course.
    i have a particular ratio that appeals to me.
    of greater concern is the "tone" of the body.
    all that goes out the window if she's stoopid, tho.
    there's no prosthetic or surgery to fix that.

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  • I personally don’t care about how big or small they are cause outer beauty doesn’t last forever it’s limited edition and will soon fade away only true thing that lasts forever is the persons heart most “Men” now a days prefer bigger but only a few remain that don’t care what their bodies are as long you have a great soul you’ll be fine that’s the real beauty of a woman

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  • It really depends on the situation, if I find someone I care about, I won't really care for certain aspects of her round goodieparts, but if I'm looking for something more, temporary, I'd like her to have a nicer body.

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  • Of course it matters. Because for a good relationship to form each person must be attracted to each other both physically and mentally. And it varies between everyone. But if it's a make or break then those guys are just vain.

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  • Not really. Been with someone who was a B cup, and someone who was a H or doulde H cup.
    Who they are and how comfortable with who they are is far more important.

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  • My personal idea is, smaller is better; bigger is worst". Just a note here we should just stop and think how does the women really feel having to carry and manage the heavy package. Men would you like to carry the package 24/7. Not me for $&@: sure.

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  • For me, I have my personal preferences, but if there's a girl I'm interested in, then that's not as much of a concern with me.

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  • I don't care much as to how a girls body is naturally shaped or anything. I think the only thing would be if she doesn't take care of herself and her body, then no. I love a great personality as well and self care and morals go into that. I don't really think it matters at all the size certain parts of a girls body are

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  • See it's a very subjective matter everyone looks for something special which they like considering most guys are perv enough to judge a person on the basis of their breasts for me it NEVER mattered though the looks of a person matters for first impression like I like girls with specs

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  • So long as it's proportionate I wouldn't care. I've seen some comically large breasts on petite women that make you immediately wonder how small her breast used to be to make that happen.

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  • Somewhere between option 2 and 3. Generally I like curves, but I can deal with a less curvy woman and still be attracted. But there certainly is a limit to "less curvy" where it becomes a dealbreaker.

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  • Of course it does.
    Let's start with the first impression when we want to know her age, we not only look at those to ch check compatibility bug also the mileage.

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  • It matters somewhat; I prefer at least a B cup and a decent curvy size, not super curvy or nothing, just average size.

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  • Does not matter how big or small the breasts/butt are. You could be flat and id stiĺl be attracted to you. However it kind of does matter a bit when ot comes to having implants or just overall mammoth cup sizes (anything over Double D) in my opinion.

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  • I hit C, but I really liked to a girl once who barely had curves, very little maybe, and she wasn't tall.

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  • Well in a long term relationship smart and mature people know that body is supposed to fade eventually and not everyone was born with a gold spoon that they can afford a healthy lifestyle and surgery to stay beautiful forever. And people who are just in relationship because their partner has right assets they do tend to loose interest once the lust phase ends. You can't stay with someone for ever for that reason. Care love compassion, understanding they all matter a lot in a long term relationship.
    Yeah if it's just for a one night stand it's a different approach but for long term assets fade.

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  • I think it matters. I mean, I'm bi so seeing them makes me happy but it's not like small boobs/but would be a deal breaker. Everyone is different.

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  • I voted B. It really depends but if the guy would have like enormous "something", I'd probably run away.

    The same with girls. I don't find extremely large boobs very attractive (sorry gals) so I couldn't be with a chick like that unless the chemistry would do her thing.

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  • I'm pan, it doesn't matter to me but it's true that I find small girls with small breasts and butt more attractive, but again, it doesn't affect my relationships in any way, personality is all that really matters in the end

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  • Some guys care more than others, everyone's different. There's also nothing wrong with caring about these things.

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  • I don't care about the size of man height. only insecure people that only about height and boobs size. I am lucky to get a small boob. I got a bra that work for me and is very soft

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  • If it's our natural body shape and size it shouldn't matter

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    • Does it matter to you if a guy is short? Lacking in natural confidence? Not capable of reading your emotions at all? Do any of those affect how attractive you find a boy?

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    • To some degree they're tied... But they're not ubiquitous. Especially with standards as personal as what individual men find attractive about the female form.

    • They are one in the same but that discussion can be for another time.

  • I like breast almost all sizes but if there To big then no.

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  • i love big boobs and a nice butt..

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