Emotionally Unavailable because of a boy I was smitten with?
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Hey, you had your resons for doing what you did, and with every breakup comes that moment when you have time to think, and time to reflect back on things, and emotion brings up the "wanting" and "hope" again. But if you really believe that breaking up was what was best, then it probably was. You still need time to heal, and right now you're NOT emotionally ready for anything but healing and surrounding yourself with good people, family and friends.
You couldn't take the relationship anymore, and you chose to end contact for a reason. Two years is a long time to be falling for someone, and I personally think you did the right thing. It's better to end something and put a halt to it if it's not going anywhere, especially if it's upsetting yourself. I think you've hit that wall in breakups where you've done thinking and now you're reflecting on the past, and the good things. It's simply your heart reminding you how you felt about this guy.
So, now this decision is up to you. After this time you've had to think about stuff, do you feel like reconnecting with this guy would benefit you? Would it change things for the better? Would you feel better with the relationship?
DO you know it's not going to be any different? are you falsely hoping for something far better than what you know the outcome will be? Do you feel you're better off without him, even if you miss him?
You need time to heal. Right now I would not jump to any conclusions yet. Take more time to think through and really make a decision for YOURSELF. think of YOU.
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