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The places you have tried are for sluts, fboys, fatties, and a fair share of prostitutes.
I used match. com back when it was free, and it worked then.
I don't use eharmony, but I would think you would have a much better chance of meeting someone there that is looking for a relationship.
Not all good sites require the women to pay, but unless someone is paying, it can't be very good.