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expectations that are too high or too stifling,
Not physically attractive,
unapproachable (either because of differences of attitude, religion/outlook, economic class, politics, culture, etc. Even too much competition could do it if I thought that vying for her attention would just be a waste of time),
Nitpicking everything I say (especially minor issues),
Laughing at everything even when I'm clearly not even trying to be funny,
If I literally can't think of a single thing to say to her besides small talk,
if she's too friendly with other girls (to the point of seeming bi or lesbian. How am I supposed to compete with girls? They're way too beautiful/attractice. I entirely concede that point.) even if she assures me she's straight if she is too friendly with girls I'll have a nagging suspicion which I'll never be able to get rid of. It would just eat away at my esteem if I were to be in a relationship like that.
Acting non feminine,
Drugs, tattoos and piercings,
If she's too stupid and I constantly have to slow even my thoughts for her,
If she's too smart and I feel like I hold her back/ am intellectually inferior,
way way too tall (a little taller than me is fine, but I don't want to tip toe to kiss her)
If Her friend is way cuter and always outshines her,
If she has no self respect,
If I see her as a sister or professional peer,
if she's crossed my bottom line some time in the past (I hold grudges)
If I get the feeling she thinks I'm a creep
That's about all the reasons I can think of for why I didn't think of a girl in a romantic light even though all the other factors lined up.
Like you as a girl is allowed to not like someone for real or stupid reasons, we also can.
Just like girls said, being nice is not enough for a guy to get the girl, so same for you, liking someone does not means he should like you back.
It can happen u r not attractive anymore and not worth loving.