I'm afraid I'll never get over him?
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I can't tell you how to get over him but I can give you advice
So maybe you haven't accepted it's over completely let it sink in that he's not coming back and your not going back and that it's just better for you both (that's one)
And yes this is the first time you've had such a strong attachment but you will find it again maybe it just wasn't meant to be and thats ok because there are other guys that are willing to love you and you have to believe it because if you don't it will only get harder now I'm not saying go out and search for that feeling (but you can) because your not over him yet
Now here's something I always do and it's going to hurt but I find that it helps
Lay down listen to some break up songs
Close your eyes and breath think about what he taught you in that relationship think about what you learned about yourself what you like what you don't like ( whether it was him or the relationship) just think about your standards (at this point find some inspirational music) and just think about every thing and tell yourself that its going to be ok and that your going to climb this mountain and get over it
I feel the same way. But for me, I know, I'll never love another the way I love him.
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