I mean I've read on here that wear you put your hands is important when your approaching a girl. I try to give them at least 3 feet of space. I smile I ask questions to show an interest in them. I try to be funny and have a sense of humor. But I also know if one word is out of place. If I hesitate fo one second or have the wrong body posture I will never hear from that girl again. I feel like this is an audition for the Acadamy awards not asking someone out on a date. So my question is why do girls make it so hard for a guy when we approach you?
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Many times its because we've been screwed over and we want to see how sincere you are. If we turn your down, are you really that interested as to keep pursuing? My husband had to ask me out for almost 2 months straight! He chased me down like crazy. I had been screwed over and I wanted to know if he wanted a date that bad and wanted to get to know me, or if it was all just for something physical. if your seriously that interested in a girl, keep trying. Don't be like stalker crazy or anything. Give it a few days or weeks, and try again. Tell her you don't want anything other than a date, and your interested in getting to know who she is. Most likely she's heard that one before and will turn you down. But, keep trying. It doesn't hurt right? Just be careful! Look what happened to my husband! Now he's stuck with me hehe.2