Would you just ignore the comment, rethink your relationship / talk to your bf?
- Depends on the reasons
Most Helpful Guys
Opinions or opinions, if you think you have an unhealthy relationship then i think opinions would be helpful, because they provide different perspectives.
But don't take all of them into account, try to assess the situation and ultimately, you should be talking to your partner
me and a friend talked about something very similar, friends and family will most of the times say oh you're dating such and such? mhm not your type or smth like that.
it's pretty common and should not influence your relationship.
Most Helpful Girls
It’s necessary to have your friends give some degree of input in a relationship. You don’t want to be isolated in a relationship. I briefly dated a guy who was emotionally unavailable and lead me on. By the time I listened to my friends, I was emotionally drained and heartbroken. There’s a reason we have friends and family. Sometimes we’re too blinded by love to make good decisions. If your friend has an opinion, try to consider it. Ask questions. Weigh whether it has merit. I’m not advocating to just dump the boyfriend, but consider if there’s value in what she’s saying.
I’m in a situation like that right now myself. I usually tell at least a couple friends about stuff that happens to that I can get another opinion. I always tend to make excuses and explanations for his actions.