I have this guy I’ve been talking to online and we’re going on a year in October. At first he had told me to come over and s we him but now he’s more reserved and telling me to wait. He says soon, eventually, one day and now he’s saying very soon. I don’t understand his apprehension. I was joking and he said I won’t land a date until I move to his country, that visiting won’t hey me a date. Yet he still talks to me and tha nature of our conversations are like that of a couple. What could be happening?