Most Helpful Girl
I like being single. It's hard to give it up, especially when you enjoy it. I think that it's best you stay single, especially after you've been hurt so much.
Honestly, I could say the same about men, but I know not all of them are jerks. I mean, look at you, you seem like such a nice guy with good morals - so, good guys really do exist, & girls who have been cheated on also exist, they share your grief. Trust me, it happens to both genders.
For now, you need time so that you know exactly what you want going into a relationship in future. Keep your options open; the right person will remain loyal to you.
She may have cheated on you, but she lost a loyal partner who deserves better than her; it's really just her loss & your gain. Better she did it while in a relationship & not during marriage.
Go after your passions, focus on your self-growth. Remember that people don't want to be a part of your life if it's dull. Make it exciting & love it.
I wish you all the best! :)
Most Helpful Guy
Just learn to live on your own, and remain single indefinitely until the day you die. And since you don't want kids anymore, welcome to the club bro! There's even less point or "importance" to seek a relationship or date anybody anymore, once you decided that being a parent just isn't for you. So should you care anymore? I'd say why bother? You don't have to anymore if you really don't want to anymore. Ask my bros here @Unit1? @decentguy What do you guys think?