Can everyone fall in love?

I have never been in love and it feels like I can't really fall in love with someone. Is it possible? I don't know what's wrong with me. I see so many happy pairs and constantly together wherever I go and it's so annoying...

It doesn't help me with my disgust for the majority of people. I'm trying to be "neutral" but I hate optimistic happy people and these fellas radiate it. I've been through bad stuff, serious depression and other things and I just can't be like the others. Is this the reason?
  • Yes, we all have our other half... somewhere
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  • Yes, but... (explain)
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  • No, not everyone can
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes but u have to give people a go if u hate people how could u ever love them hating someone because that still see the good in love is silly just because u have seen the bad

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    • My friend tried to lighten my mood, he's always optimistic. I'm grateful for him, that she cares and is trying to help me but it does the opposite.. I wish I'd have someone who would understand me and with whom I could share these feelings.

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    • But understand what your dislike for people someone like u may just end up disliking u

    • I know but all of them are optimistic. We just don't work together.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yeah but I dont think there's that one perfect person. there's a lot of people one could potentially be in a happy relationship with.

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    • I feel like I can't even find that one person, let alone more of them.. 😂

    • Well if there was one they'd be harder to find, your chances grow if there are more.

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What Guys Said 4

  • some people are too messed up psychological that they can't think correct therefore love to them is violence.

    so no not everyone can.

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    • That's what I thought and still think to be true. I feel too messed up even though I know other people who went through bad stuff yet found love anyway.

  • Love is important, not only when it comes from other person.

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  • There are probably some people who can't.

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  • I only hate

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    • I often feel like that too.

What Girls Said 4

  • you are who you are dispite your depression or whatever
    and as human being sure you can fall in love
    even psychopats can
    but will you meet a guy youd fall in love? Does anyone get the chance? I don't know

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  • Absolutely, except maybe serial killers. I don’t think they have the ability to love.

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  • human nature i believe

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  • I wish there was some form of magic potion against falling in love sometimes though.

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    • I'd switch with you if I could.

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    • I hoped for that to be true and I don't want to seem rude (I am not rude, I'll just use a nasty language), it's bullshit in my opinion. There's probably no such a thing, not for me at least.

      It sucks when I see young people around 15/16 experiencing stuff like this and then there's me who's 19 and experienced none of that. Comments from my close ones don't really help either when they tell me how should I finally get someone. If only it would be as easy as they make it sound.

    • It’s not bullshit at all. Everyone has an individual story, humans are complex and nothing will be the same for everyone. Comparison is a one way road to unnecessary problems. Time will prove me right unless you create a self fulfilling profecy.

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