So a girl I know broke up with her boyfriend about a month ago, there were together for close to 2 years I think. So anyway I like her but haven't been persuing that much just out of giving her space to deal with that breakup but instead just chatting to her normally and being someone to talk to. I realize the answer to my following question will probably be you can't or something but basically how would you go out with her without becoming a rebound or is that basically just inevitable. We've known each other from quite a few years and we get on well. But I also don't want to ruin the relationship we have. If anyone has any tips or advice to avoid being a rebound while still persuing her please I'd really appreciate your help.