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I don't really consider me much. I may be horiffic to some and beautifull to others.
Really what is most important is confidence. Without it can be harder.
If you whant a lady to aproach you then you also nead to LOOK approachable.
Looks is one thing, confidence is another. Making sure you dont make a face that says "dont talk to me" is decreasing your chanses.
The real fact however is that it is easier to go up to them than the other way around.
OK, what exactly do you mean by not getting noticed and women not showing interest? Are they willing to talk to you when they approach you?
At any rate, you have a lot of interests, so find clubs or do meetups with people with similar interests- when a woman has a similar interest as you, she sees you in a different light than when you are some random guy on the street, or at a bar or club that approaches her.
If you think your hair is a problem, the dye it. I think you might also want to think about growing some facial hair unless you know it doesn't look good.